Harvard Study Reveals Breakthrough Science to Make Anyone Like You in 7 Seconds
Confession of A Short, Asian Guy
Have you ever been tongue-tied at a party?
Or experience the awkward silence in a conversation?
I remember going to a party and feeling that I don’t belong. I stood there, feeling awkward. My mind started playing tricks on me. I look stupid. They must think I am a loser.
I made small talk to the person standing next to me. But the conversation fizzled out faster than it started. I ended up holding on to my drink for dear life and standing at the corner of the room wishing I was back in my own apartment.
I was tired of making boring small talk that leads to nowhere.
I was tired of being a forgettable wallflower at a party or a networking event.
I was tired of being that guy that nobody remembers.
So, I started devouring books on human psychology and communications. I spent thousands of dollars on mentors and workshops. It wasn’t until I stumbled upon a Harvard professor when I found the answer - the science to make anyone like you.
The University of Harvard did a study that spans 80 years to discover the secret of a longer and healthier life.
And the answer is not success or money or fame. It is the quality of your relationship with your loved ones, friends and the community.
Is It Really Possible To Make Someone Like You In 7 Seconds?
Studies have shown Only 7% of any message is conveyed through words, 38% is through vocal tonality, and 55% is non-verbal (body language, facial expressions, gestures etc).
Think of our last interaction with a stranger? Whether we admit it or not, we probably made a snap judgment of him before he even speaks. That’s even shorter 7 seconds!
Isn’t that amazing? And here we are so focused on what we are saying.
Let Me Give You An Example...
When we start a conversation with someone, should we face him directly? Should we stand shoulder-to-shoulder next to him?
It’s generally not a good idea to face him directly. Firstly, it might scare him off. Subconsciously, it conveys that we are too available. Maybe we even come across as needy!
So how should we stand? We can stand 45 degrees away from him. So it shows that we are interested to get to know him better but he has not won us over yet. He has got to earn our full attention. Even how we stand makes a hell of a difference.
I will share more tips with you in the science to make anyone like you.
Why the hype about being more likable? Whether we like it or not, studies have shown that, everything else being equal, if you are more likable, you are more likely to get hired, if your employer likes you, you are more likely to get a promotion, if an investor likes you, they are more likely to invest in you, if a girl/guy likes you, you are more likely to get dates.
I Will Not Just Tell You My Success Story, But Rather…I Will Introduce You To Your Own!
Ever since I learned the science to make anyone like you, my social and professional life has transformed. When I go for tech networking events, everybody wants to hire me. Many even asked me to be their CTO! Heck, they don’t even know if I can do the job. Look, I am a short Asian guy who is not better looking than you. If it works for me, it will work for you too.
Imagine what it would be like if you can make just about anyone you meet like you. How would your social and professional lives be?
Imagine having a guide that spells out exactly what to do and say the moment you meet someone until you leave a good impression. You don’t have to worry about what to say.
All that is in Science to Make Anyone Like You.
Look, it’s not for everyone. It’s only for people who are willing to take action to change their lives. If you are ready to take on the challenge to transform your social and professional lives, click the button below.
Honored to speak at United Nations, New York
Brainstorming with one of the top success coach, Michael Bernoff